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9 Changes To Make To Build Self Esteem

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How do you build self esteem? If you want to succeed in this life, then you need to work on your self-esteem. By having confidence in your own abilities and self-worth, you are going to find it far easier to achieve what you want. Those with good self-esteem will be able to push themselves towards their goals, rather than stay at a point where they feel comfortable. If you feel like you are not moving ahead in your life, whether it is socially or at your place of work, then the following changes will work wonders for you.

1. Develop a skill

Work on developing your skills in something that you are passionate about. By doing this, you will be proving to yourself that you can accomplish something. This is going to result in you having a high degree of self-worth. It will demonstrate that you can achieve what you want in your life if you are willing to put your mind to it. You, of course, also have the side-benefit of the skill that you develop being able to help you achieve your business or career goals too.

Remember; it is important that you develop a skill in an area that you are passionate about. If you do not, you will not be motivated to improve. This can really put a dampener on your self-esteem. A good skill to start building that will help with building your self esteem is organization.  To learn how to be better organize, check out this article.

2. Believe in Yourself

It is important that you start to believe in yourself. Whenever you face a challenge in your life, tell yourself that you have what it takes to overcome it. If you can convince yourself that you can tackle whatever is thrown at you, you are more likely to jump headfirst into something. This will give you the edge that you need in life.

It is worth noting that this is not the ‘be all and end all’ to developing self-esteem, but it is certainly going to help.

3. Acknowledge your past successes

From time to time, sit down and take a note of the successes that you have achieved in your life. By developing this list, you will be proving to yourself that you do have what it takes to be successful, because you have already achieved success in your life.

Whenever you have a new success, and it does not matter how minor it is, feel free to add it to your list. Keep showing yourself that you are worth something.

4. Self-Analysis

Before you learn to build self esteem, it’s important that you carry out some self-analysis. Make a list of what you are good at. Ignore the things that you are not so good at right now. By looking at your skills, talents, and education, you will be able to convince yourself that you are a far better person than you give yourself credit for. This sort-of ties into the previous point about acknowledging your past successes. These are all tools that you can use to provide evidence that you are worth something.

5. When you agree something, keep to that agreement

When you make an agreement with somebody else, do your best to keep to those agreements. The problem with not following through on the agreements that you have with other people is that you are going to start to convince yourself that you are untrustworthy. When this happens, you are going to have a lack of faith in your abilities. You will find it a whole lot more difficult to convince yourself that you have what it takes to succeed.

6. Be Willing to Take Risks to Build Self Esteem

I once saw a good analogy about self-esteem and poker chips. This analogy argued that self-esteem is very much like poker chips. The more chips you have, the more risk you are willing to take when it comes to gambling. Now, apply this to self-esteem. The more self-esteem you have, the more risks you are going to end up taking. So, start to take those risks. Obviously, these should be calculated risks, but risky nonetheless. As you do this, you will actively be building up your level of self-esteem. This results in you being more willing to take risks. Remember, risks are what gets you ahead in life.

Why not start working on your self-esteem today? Why it is not the be all and end all to succeeding in the world of business, it certainly is going to put you on the right path to success.

7. Be Realistic

Part of having to build self esteem is to make sure that you do not overextend yourself when it comes to your skills and agreements. You need to be realistic with everything that you do. If you are not realistic when it comes to your talents, then it will result in over-promising. When you over-promise and don’t deliver, you are going to pick up quite a knock to your self-esteem.

8. Wake Up Positive

This may only be a small change, but it is something that really does work. To build self esteem each day, you should make a conscious effort to wake up and be positive. Tell yourself that you are going to succeed that day. Tell yourself that you are going to tackle each challenge that comes your way. Many people will practice positive affirmations, or perhaps meditation, in a bid to improve their positivity levels. The more you do this, the easier it is going to become.

9. Do Not Judge Yourself Against Others

Finally, and this is important, to build self esteem you should not judge yourself against other people’s successes. You are working on improving yourself as a person. If you judge yourself against other people, you will be judging against something that you are not. We all have our own unique skills. We all have our own weaknesses. No person out there is 100% the same as another. The only person you should be judging yourself against is you. The success you achieve in life should be based around who you are as a person. The second you compare yourself against others is the second your self-esteem is going to plummet.

Ava Eagle Brown

Dr. Ava Eagle Brown is a master coach and international speaker that has helped thousands master their mindset and businesses to live their best lives. She is the author of The Mango Girl and Bamboo & Fern. She is a Life & Business Strategist as well as a Book Coach. She is focused on mindset transformation as the key to all of life’s successes. In addition, she is the host of The Pusposewalk Podcast -where she interview thought leaders walking in their divine purpose. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram.

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SNES Classic Edition Review

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The second iteration of Nintendo’s blast from the past: SNES Classic Edition. As a millennial, I am particularly excited to not only unbox, but relive my childhood. For me in particular, the Super Nintendo was my first entry into the world of gaming. I remember a particular period of time in my childhood when my grandmother babysat me and my brother. We were dancing in the middle of the room like the princesses we are, and my younger brother decided to do a cartwheel, completely shattering my toe bone, leaving me in a cast for 6 months.

During that time, the casts were not as cool as they are today. This was a full cast! Disgusting, smelly, sweaty, and gross. But the one benefit that came out of all of this was that I found a love for video games. Growing up, I was always that kid that would go outside and play until the sun came down, but without the ability to run or walk, I would sit home and play Super Nintendo. I remember the first game I played, Super Mario World. That one game led to others. My favorite game of all time (besides modern era Kingdom Hearts) was Super Mario RPG.

The SNES Classic Edition is an incredible display of engineering. They were able to take the classic elements of the original and morph them into a modern twist. With the addition of the HDMI cable you can play the games on your television. No more cubed TV’s! I know you can buy these games on the 3DS, WiiU, and I am sure the Nintendo Switch at one point and time, but the this whole series from Nintendo has been a marketers dream. I absolutely love everything that Nintendo is doing here and I hope they continue this trend.

Now, it’s time to DO A BARREL ROLL! 

In The Box

  • SNES Classic Edition Console
  • Two Controllers
  • AC Adapter
  • HDMI Cables

Games Featured

  • Contra IIIThe Alien Wars
  • Donkey Kong Country
  • EarthBound
  • Final Fantasy III
  • F-Zero
  • Kirby’s Dream Course
  • Mega Man X
  • Secret of Mana
  • Star Fox
  • Star Fox 2 (Unlock-able)
  • Street Fighter II Turbo: Hyper Fighting
  • Super Series: Castlevania IV, Ghouls’n Ghosts, Mario Kart, Mario RPG: Legend of the Seven Stars, Mario World, Metroid, and Punch Out
  • The Legend of Zelda: A Link To The Past
  • Yoshi’s Island

Games I am personally most excited for are ranked top 5 in order.

Mega ManOut of all the games included, I played this game the most. The storyline was captivating, the levels were difficult, the anxiety and stress (and sweat) levels were over 9000!

Super Mario RPG

This was truly the first game that “started it all”. I’m not a gamer as much as I once was, nor am I programer, but I am a story teller. This for me was the first true story in gaming. The game was nearly impossible to beat. It was complex for a game of its time.

Donkey Kong Country

You get to ride on animals, the graphics were simple and awesome, and Diddy Kong makes it worth it.

Street Fighter

Fighting games are awesome, but has there been a better fighting game since? Also, who else doesn’t like punching the crap out of cars!

Zelda

This is so obvious on so many levels, but Zelda and Link has a special place in my heart. My favorite Zelda game in the franchise was Wind Waker. I can confidently say that I am the anomaly on this one, because the game itself had harsh criticism due to cell shaded graphics and lack of storyline. A link to the past is the summarization of this article and also the feeling that I received when I turned on the console for the first time.

Watch this awesome review from FUgameCrue. Subscribe to his channel. He has some awesome reviews and a great sense of humor.

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Tech Traveler Must Haves

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Constant travel makes packing difficult, but these products can make your on-the-go lifestyle much more efficient. You know you’re a tech traveler when your dongles are spilling out of your suitcase. Sometimes it may even be difficult to find a place to plug in these dongles. We compiled a list of products that ensures that your tech traveler lifestyle is up to par as well as enhances your experience, wherever you may be.

Memobottle

Memobottle is a water bottle designed to fit perfectly between your books or laying flat against your laptop. This rectangular, flat bottle design is sleek and is sure to spark some conversation. Slide your bottle into your briefcase or laptop bag without having your bag become bulky, which is a lifesaver when you’re a fellow tech traveler. Memobottle is a sustainable alternative to disposable plastic water bottles. It is stylish and durable, making it an essential for everyday use.

 

Nomand USB charging hub

Because of our need to be connected, we may need to charge a bunch of different devices at the same time. The Nomad USB Charging Hub is sleek in design and fits perfectly into your environment. The charging hub is perfect for every tech traveler. You can charge up to five devices in one place, relieving you of the stress of searching for multiple outlets. The flat surface allows you to rest your phone or iPad on top. The Charging Hub also has an ambient light sensor that dims the LED indicator in the dark, allowing you to sleep peacefully.

 

Raden Suitcase

What makes the Raden suitcase unique is the technology they integrated into the suitcase. Think about some of the basic fears we now have when flying: losing our suitcase, having to pay extra fees, or running out of batteries on our phone with no outlet available nearby. The Raden suitcase solves these three concerns with their app. We may be able to fit everything we need into a conventional suitcase but usually forget about the weight. Well, the Raden suitcase is its own scale. After connecting the suitcase to the app, lift the handle of the suitcase to find out the weight and avoid overweight fees. With bluetooth technology, the app will notify you when your suitcase is nearby. No more fighting with other travelers for space circling the carousel watching as each bag falls down from the entrance. Stand back and let your suitcase tell you when it is coming.

Running out of batteries has become one of our biggest fears – especially if being connected is a part of our job. Well, the Raden suitcase is here to save you if you miss your connection or spent too much time playing games on your phone and now need a charge. There is a built in USB charger port right behind the handlebar that can completely charge up to four phones. Plug the charging wire into the battery without removing it to charge up the suitcase or remove the battery, charge it and used as a portal changer once you have reached your destination. This suitcase is a combination of old and new. The Raden suitcase has four 360 degree wheels. Their use of polycarbonate shell allows the suitcase to be durable against TSA throwing your suitcase around, but at the same time is lightweight and smooth. The zipper is reversed, making it water resistance, great for keeping your belongings secure and dry when traveling to rainy destinations.

 

Lexdray Laptop Case

As we become more dependent on technology, besides a cell phone, a laptop is the next most important device to keep us connected and get our work done – especially those in the technology field. A prime investment for our previous laptops is the Lexdray laptop case. The case is “ultra paddled” with fleece lining for their main compartment as well as the two side compartments for chargers and other essentials.  The water repellent zippers are great for running from house to car, car to building, building to restaurant without worrying about our electrics getting wet.

Zest Tea

To get that boost of energy and focus you are craving for without the crash, try Zest Tea. They currently offer four flavors from something simple like earl gray black tea to something bold like pomegranate mojito green tea. Each flavor of Zest Tea is highly fragrant, and drinking it leaves you feeling instantly refreshed. This is especially important for the tech traveler who is awake at all hours of the day, going from place to place.

Once you hit a certain age, highly caffeinated beverages are your best friends when we need a bit of extra energy. It becomes a necessity. You get the energy boost you are looking for but it comes with a consequence. You become jittery, especially when you are lacking the drink, and you crash once the caffeine wears off. Zest Tea gives you the energy you need without the uncomfortable side effects.

 

Happiness Planner

Technology has consumed our lives for better and for worst. Before smart phones and social media became such an essential part of our lives. Going back to the old school way of pen and paper allows us to disconnect from the world and have a moment to ourselves: right here, right now. The Happiness Planner is laid out in a way to help you take a step back from technology and focus on simpler things in life that makes us happy. 

Each morning, start off by thinking about what excited and inspires you. A positive mindset will set your day in a good direction. As you are writing, more ideas will come to you and before you know it, you are have the right attitude to conquer any difficult task that may come your way. At the end of the day, reflect on all the good things that happened that day. You will realize that this world isn’t as bad as the news makes it seem.

 

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How Music Improves Work Productivity

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Music seems to have an important role to pursue in modern workplaces. Seeing colleagues with headphones in while working have become regular, seeing that music improves work performance. The best fitting headphones are up to debate, but with Sudio headphones, they are as aesthetically pleasing as it is practical. The wireless headphones are lightweight, easy to use, and are perfect for entrepreneurs who desire functionally and beautifully designed products. Tres headphones are great for office use, commuting, and even gym wear as they are sweat proof, 9-hour battery life and quick charge capability. 

Music Improves Work

The packaging is simplistic and mirrors Apple’s minimal designs. The headphones themselves come in neutral colors with an accent of black, gold, or rose gold that appears more like pink in person. Different size ear comforters allow fit for a variety of users, although long term wear can leave the ear a bit sore. The sound quality works well for everyday users, especially for entrepreneurs looking for affordable, stylish, yet minimal wireless headphones. Similar to the company’s social media, Sudio headphones brings users one step closer to a minimal and chic lifestyle.

The founder of LifeSounds Educational Services and author of the book Soundtracks for Learning, Chris Brewer says specific sounds can help retain our attention, evoke emotions, and stimulate visual imagination. “Students of all ages—that includes adults— generally find that music helps them focus more clearly on the task at hand and puts them in a better mood for learning,” says Chris Brewer. This study can reduce the levels of stress at work environments with the incorporation of music, showing how music improves work performance after.

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Music Improves Work

There are 3 reasons why employees need to listen to music while working:

Music Increases Motivation

Arguably, natural sounds such as classical music or songs without lyrics can increase your productivity. The absence of lyrics creates concentrated attention to the music, allowing the mind to be devoted to your tasks. By including a musical element into your general tasks, the impact results in enhanced attention, better quality in mood, and overall effective learning intake. Statistically showing, 65% of business owners believe that music helps employees be more productive. While in relation, 88% of employees produce more work when listening to music. While each category of music stimulate different moods, classical music is the best option to improve accuracy by 12%, while pop music reduces mistakes by 14%, and other genres sync different outcomes as well.

Music Relieves You Of Your Stress

Music has a special connection to our emotions, most of us use it as a therapeutic tool even. Music has been indicated to stimulate brainwaves, which changes mood and behavioral responses in coordination with the type of music you’ve chosen. When your brain waves get altered, your body starts reacting as well. Your muscles begin to relax, we become more alert, and our breathing and heart rate adjusts to the music we’ve been exposed to. Other benefits include a reduction in stress, decrease in depression, elevated mood, and a promotion in relaxation. This all occurs when a specific song relates to you, with Sudio headphones, your songs can be produced more thoroughly for you to enjoy. The songs are only as good as the tools being implemented to expose it.

Music Inspires Creativity

Certain songs stimulate feelings of nostalgia. When in need of creativity, music can be used as a memory cue to allow your brain to expand. “The brain looks different if you’re trying to solve a creative problem than if you’re trying to solve a math problem,” Dr. Jeffrey Thompson of The Center for Neuroacoustic Research in San Diego explained, who has examined the impact of sound on creativity since 1980. So when you activate music into your tasks, Thompson says the brainwaves try to adjust themselves to the speed of the pulses in the music. “That alters your consciousness, creating a more dreamlike state,” he says. “That dreamlike state, Theta, mirrors the state of consciousness associated with creativity.” Music undergo various impact on your behavior and subconscious. Certain songs can even adjust your mood without even realizing the cause. An increase in creativity results from the musical influence, enhancing how music improves work performance. 

Concentration is often hard to maintain. Employees with mundane tasks are usually victims of being drained at work. Stress is to blame for the rupture in our brain at work, making procedures as simple as learning and concentrating difficult to complete. The cure to this features a response in creating a level of calmness for ourselves. The finding narrowed down music to be the answer to inducing our state of meditation. Though speculation still questions if music improves work performance, it is still being enjoyed during stressful times at work. 

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